Some of us singles feel like our life is incomplete without our “soul mate”. So we are on a mission to find this illusive person! Why we can’t find our soul mate online is that we do not know what characteristics our soul mate will have. We may be ignoring our soul mate everyday!

Our “soul mate” may have a gentle nature and aren’t as persistent as the other Singles that force their way into our worlds. You will find the persons that are the most persistent and aggressive online are not your soul mate. So if we are waiting for our soul mate to “steam roll” their way into our lives, we are wasting our time. This will never happen!……

Why we can’t find our soul mate online is that when we first go online we are pursued by the stronger personality types. The ones that will email us over and over again without even waiting for a response.

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Information compiled from an online dating service explains that many male singles choose dating older women over younger women. Access to such information can be found on any online dating service that contains male heterosexual members. The Australian online dating service that helped compile this article shared some interesting results based on its male members profiles. Our article also gives females some food for thought into the minds of many of today’s male singles. Sorry girls, we are not offering open ended secrets into the how and why of how men think ( Ill bet you wish we could though ), instead an emerging trend that is evolving in the style of lady many guys are seeking.

Our findings were based on 2000 male profiles. Our study was based on men between 18-45 years of age. The profiles we used were for men who were searching out a long term or serious romance. Our results do not indicate male singles whose profiles indicated they were only looking for casual sex or who were into serial dating. Statistics for men who wanted short term relationships vary from the statistics for males looking long term love……

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With special events like Valentine’s Day coming and going each year, I am reminded how difficult it can be to retain your spirit of who you are when you’re a Christian single.

It just sometimes feels like it would be easier to mold yourself into whatever your dating partners want, and then you can get on with living happily ever after.

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Can there be anything like friendship between two people of the opposite sex? Many people think that this is impossible but i think that platonic relationship between a man and a woman is very healthy. Many women confess to having spent wonderful time with their male best friends with the absence of their husbands. Their husbands think it is great and i think they are right. A good marriage is based on trust and something like friendships with an opposite-sex becomes completely inconsequential. You must agree with me that this is a new relationship phenomenon featuring in only this generation. The previous generations believed that opposite-sex friendships were a potential bombs to many marriages. Family and marriage therapists believe that the easiest opposite-sex friendships to maintain are the friendships which were established long before someone got married. Such relationships are not threatening since you had them before you were married……

Some of these friends are helpful when it comes to shoe shopping, some offer perfect shoulders to cry on and some good ones are good at both. They respect each others partners a lot. Problems come in if one spouse in marriage does not have friends from the opposite sex. If your husband has some girlfriends he will rarely have a problem with you having man friends. Dramas start when partners create new opposite-sex friendships and keeps it a secret from her/his spouse. It is a clear indication that the person feels romantically attracted to the new friend. Such behaviors greatly interferes with issues concerning trust and harbors romantic jealousy. If one partner is so outgoing and the other one is reserved. The reserved one always thinks that the other one has romantic relationships with his female friends. Such unclear speculations can lead to divorce.

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I made the decision a few years ago that I needed to get the area of my life ‘handled’ called ‘dealing with women’. So I made a decision and a commitment to myself and my best friend that I would do whatever it took to learn and ‘figure this out’.

Some background: The girlfriends that I had in the past were mostly from luck now that I reflect on it. They were there, and I felt lucky to have them as my girlfriend at the time.

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Wouldn’t it be great if your ex had a ‘Love-O-Meter’ attached so you could see it top the scale when they were near you…

Off course we all know life isn’t that easy, so here’s 5 tips you can use if you’re wondering does your ex still have feelings for you:

1. If you still have contact with any of your ex’s friends then an obvious opportunity to ask does your ex still have feelings for you is with them. They will be willing to help especially if your ex does still love you as your ex will no doubt have made this clear to them.

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It is during ovulation that a woman is most likely to conceive when she engages in sex. At this time her subconscious behavior is to attract any potential mate. Her fertility days are full of expectations of mating though she might not know it. Masculine men and ovulating girls always find themselves together. A strong masculine man can be trusted to bring forth powerful offspring’s. This explains the preference of masculine men for short-lived flings but not for long-lasting mates. Findings show that the value attached to masculinity varies with context and also depending on the reproductive cycle of a woman. Masculinity is also opted for depending on her immediate goals and how attractive she rates herself. Some of these brain tricks play a major role in a woman’s sex drive……

A woman who is ovulating behaves in a manner to suggest that quick sex is important, something she has no control over. Research shows that women love masculine men at this time of the reproductive cycle. It shows that facial masculinity is a great contribution. Properly defined brow ridges together with square jaws are viewed as good characteristics of a potential fling conquest. Feminine traits in a man’s face are considered best for long-term relationships. It is during ovulation that some men have confessed that women smell better to them. A woman who considers herself attractive always go for the manly type of guys. The two groups of masculine men and ovulating girls find themselves attractive and so they do not hesitate to hit it off.

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When we talk of sexuality we are not talking about explicit sex, either in word or deed. Rather we are referring to a gut feeling that bypasses the mind and body parts and stimulates all the senses.

Have you ever noticed the lack of self-consciousness and the confidence that someone really sexual exudes?

That’s because real sexuality has nothing to do with thinking; it has to do with being-being alive, feeling connected to an inner core. When we are allied with our Inner Self we are turned on and when we are turned on, people are turned on to us……

In the classical literature of Kashmir Shaivism, kundalini is Divine energy, the snake that lies coiled at the base of the spine. Uncoiled, it moves up the spine, where it reunites at the top of the head with God, the Divine, and your own true Self.

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“An anniversary is a time to celebrate the joys of today, the memories of yesterday, and the hopes of tomorrow.”

An anniversary is the end of an era and the beginning of a new one. Anniversaries come knocking on our doors, asking us to count our gains and move on. Contrary to popular myth, it is not the time to ponder over your losses and bang your head worrying what went wrong. Most people review their losses and try to learn from the mistakes that they have committed; hardly do we come across someone who savored his achievements, patted himself on the back and told himself, “Well done! Keep it up!” It requires confidence and self-belief and that distinguishes a winner from the also-rans……

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This post reveals some great flirting tips for teenagers. You’re probably aware that flirting is a part of a teen’s exploration of adolescent life. Adolescence is a time of learning social skills, exploring friendships, and testing your boundaries.

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